Neutralize Your Judgments

Create More Peace by
Neutralizing Your Judgments

Judging yourself  for being judgmental only deepens the problem. People like to think their judgments about others are true. They sure feel true, don't they? But when you realize you don't have the the whole truth from which to make a proper judgment, you can begin to see your judgments are half-truths at best. The human mind has a built-in tendency to judge. 

Completing the Past – Creating the Future

A 2016 New Year Video for You!

We are wishing new heights of joy and depths of love as you create genuine fulfillment and lasting happiness in your most important relationships this year!

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You Were Born for These Times

You Were Born for These Times

My friends, do not lose heart. We were made for these times. I have heard from so many recently who are deeply and properly bewildered. They are concerned about the state of affairs in our world now. Ours is a time of almost daily astonishment and often righteous rage over the latest degradations of what matters most to civilized, visionary people.

You are right in your assessments. The luster and hubris some have aspired to while endorsing acts so heinous against children, elders, everyday people, the poor, the unguarded, the helpless, is breathtaking. Yet, I urge you, ask you, gentle you, to please not spend your spirit dry by bewailing these difficult times. Especially do not lose hope. Most particularly because, the fact is that we were made for these times. Yes. For years, we have been learning, practicing, been in training for and just waiting to meet on this exact plain of engagement.

I grew up on the Great Lakes and recognize a seaworthy vessel when I see one. Regarding awakened souls, there have never been more able vessels in the waters than there are right now across the world. And they are fully provisioned and able to signal one another as never before in the history of humankind.

Look out over the prow; there are millions of boats of righteous souls on the waters with you. Even though your veneers may shiver from every wave in this stormy roil, I assure you that the long timbers composing your prow and rudder come from a greater forest. That long-grained lumber is known to withstand storms, to hold together, to hold its own, and to advance, regardless.

In any dark time, there is a tendency to veer toward fainting over how much is wrong or unmended in the world. Do not focus on that. There is a tendency, too, to fall into being weakened by dwelling on what is outside your reach, by what cannot yet be. Do not focus there. That is spending the wind without raising the sails.

We are needed, that is all we can know. And though we meet resistance, we more so will meet great souls who will hail us, love us and guide us, and we will know them when they appear. Didn't you say you were a believer? Didn't you say you pledged to listen to a voice greater? Didn't you ask for grace? Don't you remember that to be in grace means to submit to the voice greater?

Ours is not the task of fixing the entire world all at once, but of stretching out to mend the part of the world that is within our reach. Any small, calm thing that one soul can do to help another soul, to assist some portion of this poor suffering world, will help immensely. It is not given to us to know which acts or by whom, will cause the critical mass to tip toward an enduring good.

What is needed for dramatic change is an accumulation of acts, adding, adding to, adding more, continuing. We know that it does not take everyone on Earth to bring justice and peace, but only a small, determined group who will not give up during the first, second, or hundredth gale.

One of the most calming and powerful actions you can do to intervene in a stormy world is to stand up and show your soul. Soul on deck shines like gold in dark times. The light of the soul throws sparks, can send up flares, builds signal fires, causes proper matters to catch fire. To display the lantern of soul in shadowy times like these - to be fierce and to show mercy toward others; both are acts of immense bravery and greatest necessity.

Struggling souls catch light from other souls who are fully lit and willing to show it. If you would help to calm the tumult, this is one of the strongest things you can do.

There will always be times when you feel discouraged. I too have felt despair many times in my life, but I do not keep a chair for it. I will not entertain it. It is not allowed to eat from my plate.

The reason is this: In my uttermost bones I know something, as do you. It is that there can be no despair when you remember why you came to Earth, who you serve, and who sent you here. The good words we say and the good deeds we do are not ours. They are the words and deeds of the One who brought us here. In that spirit, I hope you will write this on your wall: When a great ship is in harbor and moored, it is safe, there can be no doubt. But that is not what great ships are built for.

Author - Clarissa Pinkola Estes

American poet, post-trauma specialist and Jungian psychoanalyst, author of Women Who Run with the Wolves 

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The Power of Gratitude

Happy Thanksgiving!

Below is a wonderful graphic poster from Mindvalley Academy, one of our favorite websites.  It explains from a number of viewpoints, including scientific, why gratitude is such a powerful and important attitude to feel and express.

12 Steps to Thrive

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Take Time to Feed Your Soul

What Does Your Soul Want?

The busy-ness, distractions and unceasing time demands of our stressful, high tech lives takes a toll. Do you sometimes find it challenging to simply stop and get away from all of that?

Given the focus on celebration with family, friends and loved ones the ordinary stresses of life become multiplied.

It's absolutely essential to having a life well-lived to create the time to renew, recharge and reconnect with what is truly important to you. And it has to be intentionally created or it will never happen.

What if connecting with your own Soul, your Higher Self, your own Divine Nature, away from all the stress that normally goes with the holidays became a priority? A gift to yourself? How could you do that? How does it feel just thinking about it?

How might it help you if you did? Does that sound attractive? Difficult? Impossible? What does your Soul truly value? What does it want? How can you feed your Soul?

These are important questions to contemplate. There are no quick answers. It takes quiet time away from schedules, demands and perceived responsibilities, many of which are self-imposed.

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