You’re Never Upset for the Reason You Think

You’re Never Upset for the Reason You Think
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Learn a proven step-by-step process for restoring peace of mind and personal power in any upsetting situation. You will learn to use a powerful new model for enlightened conflict resolution in the Conscious Upset Resolution Exercise (CURE). No matter if you’re troubled by catastrophic world events or personal misunderstandings, you’ll get to the root cause and resolve your upset at its core. This 2006 edition contains an all new chapter with a breakthrough tool for “mapping” the unconscious beliefs that have been sabotaging your lasting success in relationships.
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Most upsets are about the same feelings, over and over again
Of course, everybody gets upset. Upsets are a part of life. The problem is, most upsets are about the same feelings, over and over again. The circumstances and characters may change, but the feelings are the same – anger, hurt, defensiveness, blame, guilt, confusion, feeling victimized and powerless, obsessive thoughts, loss of peace, feeling emotionally drained – even chronic stress and anxiety.
In this practical step-by-step system, we will show you exactly how you can uncover the real (but hidden) cause of any upset, breakdown or setback, stop the pain and halt the slide toward more upset and disappointment, every single time.
The result: joyful, close and fulfilling relationships that are no longer poisoned by bad feelings, hurt, anger, and the inevitable “distance” that follows.
This is not mumbo jumbo, it is grounded in scientific fact . . .
The CURE will reveal to you the newest and most powerful conflict resolution tool ever created – and the last you will ever need. You’re never upset for the reason you think is not just some new age mumbo jumbo. We are not just making this up. It is grounded in scientific (neurobiology) fact that we explain in the book (pages 16 – 19), complete with diagrams. What we have done is create a powerful, practical application of this little known principle.
The CURE is our simple, easy to learn, step-by-step proprietary method to neutralize, clarify, and resolve any upset you will ever encounter . . . with lovers, business partners, co-workers, family members, children and any other relationship that is important to you . . . even with unsettling news you see on the television or experiences you have in life . . . absolutely anything at all that upsets you in any way.
The CURE will show you how to:
- Cheatproof your romantic relationships.
- Stop those fights that never seem to end.
- Resolve the most difficult, seemingly impossible upsets.
- Reduce the duration of upsets from days, weeks, months or longer down to minutes or hours.
- Reduce the intensity of upsets and make them much less likely to occur again in the future
- Uncover what your emotions are really telling you.
- Re-ignite a fizzled out romance by removing the 3 hidden blockers that dampen your partner’s true passion.
- Eliminate hurt feelings and anger in yourself and others.
- Expose “upset trigger points” so you can avoid setting them off.
- Halt repetitive negative patterns of behavior and thinking that have led to continual heartache in the past.
- Dissolve invisible blocks to your true happiness and well-being.
- Create an endless supply of confidence, peace of mind and personal power. (The kind that magnetically attracts others.)
- Nurture life long relationships that only get better with time.
- Transform challenges into opportunities.
- Restore harmony and good feelings.
- Stop blaming yourself and others.
- Forgive yourself and others.
- Feel more in control of your life.
- Let go of things that no longer serve you.
- Overcome fear and feel safer.
- Gain a higher, more empowering perspective.
- Relieve emotional pain.
- And so much more . . .
Imagine the love and safety, power and freedom you will feel when you are no longer bound by unresolved emotional upsets that suck the positive energy right out of you and your relationships.
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NOTE: This book is available both as an e-book and a paperback. Please be careful when ordering to be sure you get the version you want.
| Digital e-Book |
$24.95 | |
| Printed Book |
$24.95 + $6.00 shipping & handling |
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