We all know that breakdowns happen in all kinds of relationships, not just romantic. Paul and Layne help people with their relationships at home, at work and in their community.
One of the biggest and most overlooked dynamics in relationships is painful unconscious relationship patterns. Relationship patterns are involved when you are in relationship with others in which there are similar dynamics as in previous relationships.
We each work one on one with private clients in all of these circumstances. We support our clients with emotional issues and dealing creatively with conflicts. We also support them in making healthy choices and we act as a sounding board for thinking through things from various perspectives to arrive at the best choice for them.
We help our clients uncover and clear their relationship patterns so they are free to develop new relationships without the familiar patterns. Also, existing relationships can be transformed by clearing these patterns. Can you name your patterns?
Common themes in relationship patterns are:
- Feeling betrayed
- Not getting your needs met
- Intimacy issues
Our work with clients is much more than talking and listening. We teach tools and and offer recommendations. We teach our clients to use leading edge tools for clearing relationship pain quickly and easily. Many of these tools work to clear and transform painful emotions into insight and personal power. There is a new field of psycho-spiritual work referred to as Energy Psychology. We have combined many of these 'energy psychology' tools into something we call Relationship Energy Repatterning. We do this type of work over the phone or Skype as well as in person.
Maybe you have experienced a tense relationship with a co-worker. It could be anything from the silent treatment or sarcasm to outright hostility or sabotage by talking behind your back. These are all too common issues in a work place.
You might even have a family relationship that is troubled. It could be a long standing dispute or separation from a sibling or your parents. Whatever the case, if its hurting you it is most likely worth finding out if it can be healed and restored. You can improve your family relationship even when the other person doesn't want to work on it with you.
You could be in a romantic relationship experiencing misunderstanding, miscommunication or upsets. Or you and your partner might be feeling distant from each other and neither of you have so far been able to break the ice and reconnect. Perhaps you have suggested counseling or coaching for both of you, but your partner is not interested. Yet, you want support for yourself in how to handle the situation to restore connection, understanding and harmony.
If you are having trouble recovering from a breakup we can definitely help you. Our Relationship Energy Repatterning was made for clearing pain, loss and self-doubt that occurs when you end a romantic relationship. We can help you unwrap the gift inside your own relationship pain so you can heal any unconscious patterns. This helps you forgive, let go and feel stronger, more resilient and more loveable than ever before. When you need help to move on this is a God send.
We can also help you decide whether you should stay or go. "Should I stay or should I go" is one of the biggest questions we get. People can wrestle with this question for a long time before they actually let go of an unfulfilling, even toxic relationship. We can help you assess whether there is any healing potential in the relationship for you or if you should get your lesson and move on.
Perhaps you've had a falling out with a friend and you're having unwanted feelings. Perhaps you are no longer communicating, yet you value the relationship enough that you want to get to the bottom of whatever is really going on in the relationship.
If you are interested in working with us individually, we invite you to have a confidential, no cost, no obligation, no pressure 30 minute conversation to see if coaching is right for you and if there is a fit for you with our work.
You can schedule a call with either of us by clicking on the button below. In order to save time and have a focused conversation, you will be directed to a simple and short online Pre-Coaching Questionnaire. This will help us stay focused on what you want. It will also help us know more about you and the kind of support you are looking for. After we have read your questionnaire we will contact you within 3 days to schedule your conversation.
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