How We Work


Changing Limiting Patterns

We are not traditional coaches in the sense of helping you come up with new strategies for creating successful relationships and holding you accountable for their accomplishment, although we do that, also. The success or failure of relationships is largely determined by subconscious programming and unconscious patterns of behavior that were established in childhood.

Applying new strategies on top of existing negative programming is a formula for failure.

We help you uncover the deeply held negative thoughts, feelings, beliefs and attitudes you have about relationships that have been sabotaging your success and happiness. Then, we help you release those negative emotional and mental patterns and “reprogram” your subconscious mind for success in order to create the kind of relationships you want.

We know with certainty that this approach works because it is what we did!

Telephone Work and Face to Face

We work primarily over the phone with individuals, couples and partners from all over the world. We also work in person here in Santa Fe, New Mexico with those clients who choose to fly in for Private Intensive work. Most who come for Private Intensives are either at the beginning of a relationship and want a big jump start or they are in a crisis and choose to engage our services at that level to help turn the crisis around.

We also do group coaching by phone with small groups of no more than 10 participants. Group coaching is an economical and practical way to get professional support for yourself and your relationships.

Relationship Energy RePatterning and Emotional Freedom Tecnhiques

Artwork by Alex Grey (used with permission - click on image to visit Alexs site)
Artwork by Alex Grey (used with permission – click on image to visit Alex's site)

We use gentle, yet powerfully effective, non-invasive tools from the field of “energy psychology” to help you produce results quickly. Energy psychology is an umbrella term used to describe a variety of techniques for resolving a wide range of problems. Energy psychology is the green, growing edge of psychology and mental and emotional health and well-being. Energy psychology techniques are regularly used to treat phobias (irrational fears), anxieties, fears (normal fears), unresolved emotions from the past, PTSD (post traumatic stress disorder), relationship pain and more. We have been using energy psychology techniques since 1989.

We developed Relationship Energy RePatterningsm, which is a synthesis of Applied Kinesiology, Educational Kinesiology, NLP, Ericksonian Hypnosis and meridian-based therapies. Relationship Energy RePatterning (RER) does exactly what the name implies – it repatterns unconscious patterns of energy that manifest in a variety of unhealthy ways, into healthier patterns of attitude, choice and behavior.

Relationship Energy RePatterning consists of five procedures for clearing and healing chronic, negative patterns in relationships at any level, whether family, romantic or business. These patterns can be triggered by anything; a look, voice tone, word, gesture, etc. Once these patterns are set in motion they seem to have a life of their own, issuing forth their predictable commands and tragic effects.

Relationship Energy RePatterning will help you produce profoundly deep change and healing, in a very short period of time with lasting results.

Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT) is the fastest, easiest and most readily accessible of all the tools we use. We regularly use it when working over the telephone and we teach it to our clients so they can become more self-reliant in their emotional health and well-being.